Pancake Day!!!

Pancake Day always brings great excitement at our house and big decisions:  should we have pancakes for breakfast, afternoon tea or supper???  And shall we have lemon and sugar, fresh berries or real maple syrup???  We enjoy celebrating simple traditions like this in our home for the sense of rhythm they bring to our year.  Personally for me it calls in my favourite time of year:  Autumn, the lengthening of the afternoon light and the hush of the time before Easter.

Years ago when many people fasted for the forty days of Lent they would use up their eggs and milk the day before Ash Wednesday when Lent began.  In England this led to a Lenten-festival including pancake tossing races! All Year Round - a calendar of celebrations is a wonderful treasure trove of ideas for bringing meaningful traditions into your family life, and has a great pancake recipe as well!!!

“The Twelve Blessings (and One in Disguise) of Childhood

The Second Blessing:  Virtue 

by guest writer: Amber Greene, Mama Moontime

As a child grows up, they are enmeshed in a social fabric that weaves around them.  Parents play the part of the Unit Commander, holding taut the foundation threads that stand like guards around a fort. The horizontal threads are woven by culture, social norms, friendship groups and questionable judgements in a wave like manner, travelling forwards and backwards as though the mind is not quite made up. 

Virtue is the role of moral goodness, concerned with the child’s developing character.  Their ability to tell right from wrong, to sometimes make the harder choice or take the high road, and their strength to act upon their chosen path with conviction, regardless of peer pressure or the need to be liked. 

Virtuous habits are learned through the lessons of life. Just as it takes a solid month to take possession of a new healthy habit such as exercising or eating salad for dinner or restricting chocolate to weekends only, so too it takes continuous repetition or exposure to good quality influence for the new thoughts and actions to take effect.  As parents, it is our job to grab hold of role models of excellence and to share stories of boldness and greatness.  Children need to believe that the path to victory is open to them too, never more so than when they are enticed with a poisonous apple.  A virtuous character shines an inner light which illuminates the way forward and also exposes the shady characters that lurk behind dark walls.

Sharing stories or incidents is one way to till virtuous soil so it becomes moist and rich and teeming with life.  A story can free the heart of tangled emotion.  Unlike an instruction or a dry statement of intent, stories, over time, help to place choice back into the palms of the child.  Feeling heard and free, there is no need for them to react against a heavy load. Instead they feel entitled to be a part of the decision making and character construction in their life, usually with positive results.  Some Grimm’s and Aesop’s stories are useful, easy to understand tales of virtuous choice and consequence.  This can be an easy place to start, however stories of your own making, including stories from those near and dear to you, play just as an important role.   The layers of story and incident act as a rich and varied selection of thread colours from which the child makes their own character designs.  

St Martin's Day

Ostheimer St Martin and the Beggar

November 11 is St Martin's Day, a day I also just happen to celebrate as my birthday!  It's no wonder therefore that St Martin holds a special place in my heart.  In Steiner schools across the Northern Hemisphere they will be celebrating the turning inwards of the season with lantern walks, which in Australia we celebrate at mid-Winter.

So what does this ancient Saint mean for us in our world today, and what can he teach us?  And how can we celebrate this with our children?  And is it meaningful to children in Australia?

St Martin was a fourth-century Roman soldier in southern France, who made a spontaneous charitable gesture when he shared his cloak with a beggar outside the city of Tours. His subsequent dream in which the beggar appeared to him as Christ on high was the decisive event in his life.  Afterwards Martin tried to make peace instead of war and was granted a discharge from the army. After a period of solitary contemplation Martin founded a monastery in France – one of the first Christian monasteries – which included a library of the very best of Greek and Roman philosophical texts. At his death, his popularity was so large that as his coffin was carried by the river for the funeral, people flocked to the banks carrying lanterns (which is guess is how the association with the lantern walk came about).

Martinmas comes just over 40 days before Christmas.  In religious customs the number 40 has always been associated with a time of preparation.  There are 40 days of Lent leading to Easter.  It is the perfect time therefore to begin discussion and sharing as a family in preparation for Advent and Christmas.  The story of St Martin can teach children the value of giving and caring for others, and for creating peace in our world. 

I have been reflecting this evening that this year as my two girls are growing older they are very much ready to step into the "giving" aspect of Christmas.  The young child is full of the "magic" of Christmas, the anticipation, the excitement of receiving the gifts from Santa Claus, which is part of the joy and wonder of childhood today.  But perhaps for the older child it can be a time of greater maturity (as well as enjoying some magic still!) and of thinking what can be "given", not just in material things, but from our hearts and souls. 

...for us I think St Martin's day will become the "turning towards Christmas", the time we will begin to think of what we can make for those we love, what we can clear out and giveaway in terms of those possessions we no longer need or use.

I would love to hear how your family celebrates your special festivals and days, so please feel free to share...

These lovely books have been an inspiration to me over the years...

Festivals with Children
Festivals Together

“The Twelve Blessings (and One in Disguise) of Childhood”

I feel very privileged to have the lovely Amber from Mama Moontime writing as a special guest on our Blog over the upcoming months starting today!.  Amber is writing a 12-part series on the Qualities of Childhood called “The Twelve Blessings of Childhood”;  one blessing will feature each month.  Amber is a Steiner Kindergarten teacher, loving mum, and very creative soul.  She reminds us of the special gifts that each child brings the world, and the innate qualities within each of them.  You will find her reflections both insightful and heart-warming read.

Here begins a 13 part series, where we will delve into the delightful kingdom of childhood.  Each month, we will receive a gift from the Wise Women who so blessed the young girl Briar Rose.  Some of you may be more familiar with her common name, Sleeping Beauty.  Enjoy!

November:  Goodness

The world of the child is good.  Providing there are the rightly qualities of shelter, food, warmth and love, a child is like a seed planted in the warm brown earth.  With a little sun, a little rain and a drop of nourishment, the child begins to develop a kind heart, wishes to cares for the creatures of the earth and deeply loves family and friends.

The child imitates the qualities in the world surrounding him or her.  If their world is reliable, safe and considerate, so they too carry these traits.  If their world is filled with exuberance, artistry, creative imagination and good story, they too embrace these simple joys.

Life is an undulating traverse over mountains and valleys, yet a solid foundation of goodness helps the child to see the mountains as healthy challenges and the valleys as places of wisdom and growth.  Rarely do we find a plateau, a place to sit and rejoice and contemplate our next move, yet how delightful this plateau is when we rest in a field of goodness. 

We can foster goodness in our homes through story, song, puppetry, drama and the stage.  The artistic pursuits remind us of our need for goodness.  We can reach down deep into the archives of libraries and bookshelves to find poets and authors and songwriters who have captured on paper the essence of goodness.  Rumi, Keats, Wordsworth, Shakespeare, Kahlil Gibran and Henry Miller are just a few names worth mentioning in our quest for words of goodness. In more recent times, the words of Maya Angelou, songwriter Jewel and Sarah Ban Breathnach enliven the essence of what it means to be good.  Be inspired by their poetic delivery and pull down your own stars. 

Take children outside for a moment or two each and every day.  Feel the breeze stroke your hair, the sun kiss your cheek, the birdsong and chatter.  Goodness lives among us in every form.  We just need to remember to see it. 

Be gentle with their world.  Make efforts to exclude drama, violence, undesirable talkback radio and questionable lyrics, at least for a moment or two each day. Embrace local content, community gardens, kind playgroup or kindergarten friends and good food. Make good your world through the actions of your hands.  Dig, paint, hug, welcome and craft goodness with every ounce of your being.  Create ‘good’ with every stitch and snip.   Determine your barometer of goodness and accept nothing less.  

How Cute!!!

Little Lochie's mum just sent this gorgeous photo to us, she says:  "
I would lay Lochie down like this on his tummny for his naps as he seemed to sleep really really well this way. His older brother, Mitchell, who was 2 1/2 at this time, would come and quietly surround him with his favourite toys. Anamalz remain a favourite with both of them."  I like the little zebra in the background too, and the stripy pants - what a sweet photo.

At last a natural pacifer for baby...

We are happy to announce the new arrival of the Havea Pacifiers into store today. Finally a pacifier that is made from pure latex which means you are not exposing your newborn to nasty BPA, PVC or phthalates.

Natural rubber is also biodegradable so Hevea are good for the environment too. What's more Hevea use soy ink on their packaging which is a renewable resource, using less energy to produce than other inks, & its post-production waste is not hazardous.  Hevea use recycled paper in their packaging too!

The Hevea pacifier is made ethically of 100% pure natural rubber from the rubber tree Hevea brasiliensis, hence the name Hevea.

 

So, Hevea wins on all three counts for us:  kind to your baby, kind to the environment and kind to the people that make them too!

Welcome Spring - we love you!!!

Isn't it a wonderful relief when the Spring sunshine starts poking it's head out? I am feeling so grateful today for: Spring rain, Spring sunshine, morning light, the snowdrops and crab apple outside my kitchen window.

These charming little Ostheimer flower children would look lovely on a Spring Table.

 Sarah and I enjoyed the creativity the first day of Spring sent us with our new Spring "Alice in Spring Wonderland" window.  We love these beautifully dollies from Kathe Kruse.  The Mini it's Me Princess is made in the Waldorf/Steiner tradition using all natural materials and she can be dressed and undressed making her perfect for an older child.  Lolle is a very special soft-bodied doll, filled with natural wool and she comes with her own gum boots for splashing in the Spring rain!!!

I hope you enjoy the blessings of a new Spring!